Why does everyone think that it is such a bad thing to date some one out side ur race? I must say that since I have started dating blk men I am alot happier then I ever was......I just dont understand why people think that it is such a bad thing? I think that if dating  some one outside ur race is what makes u happy then go for it!!!!!!!!!!!! I have lost some of my family over it but I dont let it bug me!!!!!!!!!!!! I love who I love........ Let me know what u think!